It’s been 6 weeks since I last saw Berkay, thankfully time is going by quickly, he’s currently in the process of applying for a visit visa so he can come to England for Christmas.
He’s actually on the bus for the 5 hour journey from Fethiye to Izmir as we speak. We completed the application and made his appointment at the visa application centre for 9am tomorrow morning, fingers crossed everything goes to plan and he gets it granted with no problems, but we won’t find out for up to 3 weeks/15 working days.
He’s had two visit visas granted before, and one refused 2 years ago. Despite what most people think, the UK’s borders are not open for all and it is not easy for citizens of non-European countries to come to the UK, even for a 3 week holiday. The whole process is a very long, detailed one and it is very frustrating. I have spoken before on here about how annoying it is to hear Brits complaining about having to pay the £10 visa fee on arrival in Turkey, and moaning about having to wait for 30 minutes in a queue for the visa stamp. If you compare that to the process of a Turkish person visiting the UK, it really is nothing to complain about at all. The visa fee for non-EU citizens to enter the UK is £80 and even after paying, it is not guaranteed that the visa shall be granted, as we discovered the first time Berkay applied, and was refused.
The amount of paperwork we have to provide is also ridiculous, not only does Berkay have to show his entire life history, prove his ties to turkey in the form of property, land, employment, family links etc, but me, as his partner also have to prove that I exist, copies of my passport, proof of address, evidence of our relationship, photos… Then there is the issue of having enough money. Berkay has no money saved as wages are rubbish, and so has to have a sponsor. My dad is his sponsor, who also has to show bank statements, work contracts, invoices, tax returns, earnings, passport copies, letters, etc. If British people had to show all of this to travel to Turkey, nobody would ever bother going, can you imagine the amount of people who get into debt to pay off holidays etc, they’d all be refused unless they just so happened to have a friend in Turkey who had money saved in the bank.
The previous times Berkay has travelled to England, I have travelled with him. On arrival at the airport we felt like criminals with all the questions asked and people watching us. I understand that checks have to be made, but the whole visa process is ridiculous and horrible. There is always a risk of people overstaying visas or working illegally, but when you’re genuine and know you are going to stick to the rules, it’s frustrating having to prove yourself and have strangers judging your life and making important decisions just by reading pieces of paper.
Fingers crossed he hands in his huge pile of papers ok tomorrow morning, and that we get the decision back as soon as possible. The wait to open that envelope searching for a refusal letter or a visa stamp in his passport is a horrible one too, glad I’m not there to go through that this time.
Let’s hope we hear ASAP and Berkay can join me in the UK for 3 weeks over Christmas and New Year. Wish us luck please! ❤
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Sending luck your way! I had no idea it was so complicated to travel to some countries!!! I really hope it works out!
İ feel for you. We have EVERYTHİNG here business’s car house etc all owned by US!! So we would never want to stay in the uk.. But the wait for that envelope is horrid. to think that someone else who might be having a bad day has you fate in their hands.. Yet come January 2 of the poorest countries joining the eu will be free to travel to the uk F O C.. İts the power’s that be trying to dictate who we fall in love with Good luck Danni.. İ love reading the blog xx
Thanks, bloody stressful these visas arent they x
Fingers, toes and everything crossed for both of you. Good luck Danni and Berkay
thanks, appreciated xx
Thanks for the blog. Good luck with the visa.
Glad you liked, thanks x
Good luck to you , I hope he gets his visa, bet you can t wait for a cuddle off him!x
Thanks, fingers crossed he does 🙂 yep! x
Oh I know this painful process well only too well 😦 I envy all those people with same-nationality partners, who never have to think twice about visa regulations… getting a UK visa is a total nightmare, and most people who’ve never been on the other side of our restrictive entry requirements can’t imagine that feeling of helplessness.
I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you both – at least Berkay has had visas before, that’s always a good sign! Is he applying for a short term visitor visa or one of the longer-term options? When E and I were doing this last time, we had real indecision about which option to go for. He went for a 2-year visa in the end, not thinking he’d get it, but I guess we were lucky. Even thought it costs more, it does mean you don’t have to go through the whole process again for a while. Good luck!
I know how you feel….it is getting ridiculous sometimes……..it’s really bad here in Canada and USA. I was born in Canada and I live 1 hour from the USA border and when we go over shopping they treat you like a criminal in the USA border crossing. Coming back into Canada it is the same…..I know it’s better to be safe but those people are so dam RUDE. The funny part is most of them aren’t even born Canadians…can’t even understand their strong accent.
I guess this is the way of the world now…..good luck on your sweetie coming over.
Very true 😦 Same with the ones in UK, hardly any are ‘british’ lol. x
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Hellooo! It’s 5 am in the morning and I probably should go to bed but hey I just found out about this great blog! In addition to all those documents required, what hurts me the most is that I am very frustrated by the attitude of “border control” police when you arrive in the UK. I am very envious of the US/EU citizens who are usually allowed to pass through very quickly:( However, Turkish citizens will eventually benefit from visa liberalisation process. http://www.todayszaman.com/news-333111-turkey-european-union-to-start-visa-liberalization.html
Hopefully your boyfriend got his visa! Kisses